Monthly Archives: April 2011

Feeling Inconsequential Is Excrutiating!

What is bullying really? I am not talking about the dictionary or encyclopedia definition. I am talking about what bullying is and what it does to the people who are being bullied. How can bullying come in to play? Bullying can involve physical abuse. Bullying can involve emotional abuse in many forms. Bullying can involve…

Dharun Ravi Indicted for Hate Crime

It is so important that parents stop bullying behavior before it’s too late for the kid being bullied and the bully. It continues to shock me that there are actually parents who take pride in the fact that their kids are bullying. If any of you think this way, here is something to think about!…

Children’s Lessons on Life!

I visited some children and their parents at The Shriner’s Hospital for Children in Philadelphia. The kids were patients who had suffered spinal cord injuries. The families were from many states including Illinois, Connecticut, Maryland, Virginia and North Carolina. One little fellow was only two years old and he and his parents had driven over…

Bullies: Targeting Kids with SCIs

We spent the afternoon today at The Shriners Hospital for Children in Philadelphia. The emotions that we are feeling are beyond belief. One of the things that hit us really hard is the fact that kids who are suffering with SCIs (spinal cord injuries) are being targeted by bullies. As if dealing with a spinal…

The Courage of Children

We are very excited to have been given the opportunity tomorrow to visit with the kids who are in treatment at the Shriners Hospital for Children in Philadelphia. We will be sharing The “Tail” of Rugby Jones: A Rascal’s Journey from Disability to Ability with the kids. We can’t wait for them to hear Rugby’s…

3 Reasons Why You Should Be A Bully

Some parents interact with their children. Some don’t. Some parents read with their kids. Some don’t. Some parents do activities with their children. Some don’t. Some parents talk to and listen to their children. Some don’t. We all know that bullying is a danger in all schools today. One of the best ways that parents…

Will What You Don’t Know Hurt Your Kids?

So many parents are under the misapprehension that their children are obeying their every word all of the time. Kids are unbelievably resourceful and the sooner parents understand that fact, the better off both the children and the parents will be. These are a few of the comments that parents have made to me recently….

I Am The Target Of Adult Bullies

It’s amazing that life’s curve balls can teach so much if you are open to them. As you know, this site is about helping people of all ages to gain self confidence and learn about bullying, its causes and ways to defend against it. Little did I ever expect that I would be bullied at…

Good Kids? This Will Shock You!

We have all heard of sexting in the news. The reality is that just like cyber bullying, it is running rampant with teens and tweens. These kids just don’t get the dangers. Kids don’t need to be online to get in trouble. All it takes is a cell phone.  A dad sent me this list…

Why Parents Can’t Say No

Do you want to do a disservice to your children? If you do not say no, do not give consequences, are not consistent or are not predictable in your actions, you do a disservice to your children. Reasons why parents do not say no Some parents just want to be popular. Some parents are just…

Do As I Say – Not As I Do

An email arrived today from a mother who has been a regular on this site. Her son has been in trouble at school for bullying. She attached this note from her son to his dad. She found it folded up on her husband’s pillow. If this doesn’t hit home with some people, I’m not sure…

How Vulnerable Is Your Child?

Helping your children to gain positive self images is crucial to their development and well being. Adults who have positive images of themselves handle difficult situations adeptly.  They are confident in who they are and they understand what their abilities and limitations are. Adults with positive self images grew up in environments that created them….

How To Take The Bully By The Horns

Emails keep coming in from parents who don’t know how to approach their kids about the subject of bullying. This may not be the most diplomatic way to say it but, parents step up to the plate and take the bully by the horns! If your child is the one being bullied and you haven’t…

Bullying: Schools Decline Comment Yet Again!

Bullying occurs day in and day out. It damages week after week. It hurts year after year.  Until…What? Who? When? Where? How? There are laws being signed with the best intentions. There are programs being implemented with the best of intentions. Nothing is being accomplished. Guess what? The road to hell is paved with good intentions….