Did you know that more than 38% of the children in special education are the targets of bullies? These kids are especially vulnerable to bullying because they can’t defend themselves or fight back. If the children have special needs that are rooted in social deficits, they might not even know they are being bullied, let alone do anything to stop it. These kids are so vulnerable and too often adults don’t see what is really going on.
Kids who have mild social disabilities are also more at risk because they are unable to grasp the subtle details of social interactions. Peer pressure and or peer acceptance can make or break a child’s chance for happiness.
There are things parents of special needs kids can do to be proactive.
- Communicate with teachers and school personnel that you are aware of the increased likelihood of bullying for your child and make them aware.
- Request anti bullying education in your child’s IEP or Section 504.
- Talk about bullying with your children.
- Role-play with your children and teach specific things to say if they are being treated unkindly.
- Watch for signs of anxiety or depression.
One of the many reasons that parents should volunteer at their children’s schools and other activities is to gain a transparent view of the events in their lives.
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