Monthly Archives: May 2012

Is Your Child Well Groomed? Please say, “No.”

When I was a kid, being well groomed meant that people had clean and ironed clothes, clean hair that was combed appropriately, shined shoes and if they were male, cleanly shaven. When someone was described as well groomed, it was a compliment. It doesn’t mean the same thing today. The meaning has taken a frightening…

Their Futures: Your Responsibility

Are you giving your children the gift of belief in themselves and their abilities? What you do and how you act toward them now will dictate their futures. “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become…

Parenting: Insincere Praise Deflates Self-Esteem

Phony compliments don’t help build a child’s self-esteem. The fact is that they undermine a child’s confidence. Children see through people who are not honest. The message that you give with insincere praise is that you can’t find anything to really praise. When that happens, it tells a child that he or she does not…

High School Sucks If You Are Different

Today, I heard a young man say, “High school sucks for anyone who is the least bit different.” Speaking from experience with children of all ages who have many differences,  I know that his statement is accurate. I’d like to offer a few suggestions if your child falls into the “least bit different category.” Pay…