Category Archives: For the Safety of Kids

Parenting: Insincere Praise Deflates Self-Esteem

Phony compliments don’t help build a child’s self-esteem. The fact is that they undermine a child’s confidence. Children see through people who are not honest. The message that you give with insincere praise is that you can’t find anything to really praise. When that happens, it tells a child that he or she does not…

Allergies: What’s The Dif Between Bullies & Jif?

Children with peanut allergies can die if they come in contact with peanuts. Children with bullying allergies can die if they come in contact with bullies.             Remember: If you look away, bullies stay. Don’t even try if you start with a lie. Don’t pretend – apprehend! If your child…

Promise You Won’t Tell?

Hopefully, you are seen as a trusted adult by the children in your life. That means that they consider you to be a safe haven. They are confident that they can safely share their concerns and secrets with you. How you handle the those conversations can make a huge difference in their lives. They need…

Can You Be Trusted?

Do you know that teaching your children, students, nieces or nephews that you are a safe place can make all the difference for them? Children need to know that there is someone they can trust. That means someone they can trust enough tell their most important concerns and even their secrets. That may not seem…

Quiz: What Kind of Parent Are You?

The answers to these questions will tell all. After you answer the questions, ask your kids for their input.  Do you listen or just talk to your kids?  Do you know how to listen…really listen?  Do you have conversations with your kids      about important stuff just because?  How much do you and your kids laugh?…

Chardon High School: Every High School

This post is not about bullying. It is a post about the loss of more innocent lives. It is an effort to wake people up to the fact that there are often signs that are indicative of potential tragedy. CHARDON, OHIO was the scene of yet another violent act at a school. This time, a…

Am I Ugly?

As if the internet and especially social media sites and YouTube are not already places where kids are getting bullied, now youngsters are basically asking to be bullied. My last post mentioned the dangers of webcams. This post is on a similar subject. The Am I Ugly? webcam videos that are being posted to YouTube…